11 Tips for Surviving an Excruciatingly Long Flight with Young Children

by Anara Mailybayeva

So, you’ve decided to take the plunge and embark on an epic journey with young kids or even a baby? Bravo! You’ve conquered the seemingly impossible: booking flights, packing suitcases, and convincing yourself that this is a great idea. Now, all that stands between you and your dream destination is an excruciatingly long flight. But don’t panic! With a bit of preparation and a dash of humour, you can make it through this high-altitude adventure with (most of) your sanity intact.


1. Don't save on check-in baggage.


Let’s be real: when travelling with kids, you’re basically a pack mule. The key is to pack smart and carry only what you need. Check-in everything else. You do not want to drag suitcases with those snorkelling masks through the gates and push them into an overhead locker with your baby strapped to your chest. Check-in and forget. If you have an infant under two years old travelling with you, most airlines will offer free oversized check-in baggage. Use this rare generosity for a carseat or a pram, that you will most likely need at your destination.

2. Pack Carry Like a Pro

Have a separate carry bag per child, so that you don't have to rummage through a big tote for a pacifier. Compartments and zip baggies are your friends. Bring plenty of nappies, wipes, and changes of clothes for those inevitable spills and surprises. Remember, the one time you don’t pack extra is the time your little one will explode like a confetti cannon. Also, pack snacks—lots and lots of snacks. Think of them as tiny bribes to keep the peace.


3. Embrace the Tablet (and Headphones)


This is not the time to worry about screen time. Load up the tablet with your kids’ favourite shows, movies, and games. Download to Youtube, Netflix or any other streaming app. Don’t forget child-sized headphones, because no one wants to listen to “Baby Shark” on repeat at 30,000 feet. Bonus tip: bring a portable charger, because nothing says “parenting nightmare” like a dead battery mid-flight.


4. The Art of Distraction


Think of this as a magic show, where you’re the magician and your bag of tricks includes toys, colouring books, and stickers. Unveil new distractions one at a time to keep the little ones entertained. Pro tip: dollar store toys work wonders and if they get lost, no tears (from you, at least).


5. Snacks, Snacks, and More Snacks


Did we mention snacks? Because they deserve their own category. Pack a variety of snacks to keep tiny tummies happy and avoid hanger meltdowns. Include favourites, but also sneak in some healthier options to avoid sugar highs (and subsequent crashes). Avoid anything too messy—sticky fingers and airplane seats don’t mix well. For baby, have a bottle or breast ready before the take off, for older kids - gum or a lollipop to help balance the ear pressure.


6. Seat Selection Savvy


If possible, book seats with extra legroom or a bassinet for babies. The bulkhead seats are gold, giving you a bit more space for all your gear and room for restless little legs. Go for aisle seats if you have to choose, there will be lots of hopping-ins and -outs. But then, if your child falls asleep, it will be a shame to move or wake him to let that stranger in the window seat out. 


7. Timing Is Everything


When booking your flight, consider the timing. Overnight flights can be a double-edged sword. If your kids sleep, it’s a win! If they don’t… well, at least it’s dark and they might get drowsy eventually. Aim for flight times that align with nap schedules to increase your chances of in-flight napping bliss.


8. Accept That Not Everything Will Go Smoothly


Kids are unpredictable. They might scream, cry, or insist on playing peekaboo with the person behind you for hours. Accept that there will be hiccups and know that it’s okay. Most passengers understand, and the sympathetic ones might even offer a helping hand. If not, just smile and keep calm. You’ll never see these people again! Also, don't shy away from asking a flight attendant to keep an eye on your baby if you need to dash to the loo.


9. Dress Comfortably (and in Layers)


Planes can be chilly, so dress your kids in comfortable layers that are easy to remove. Think soft, breathable fabrics that allow for movement. A cosy hoodie can double as a pillow, and easy-on, easy-off shoes make security checks a breeze. Don’t forget a spare outfit for yourself, just in case of unforeseen messes (ahem, baby puke).


10. Stay Hydrated and Keep Moving


Airplane air is dry, so keep everyone hydrated. Bring refillable water bottles and offer drinks regularly. For older kids, consider bringing some child-friendly herbal tea bags. Make a point to stretch and move around the cabin when possible. It’s good for blood circulation and helps burn off some of that pent-up energy.


11. The Final Stretch: Arrival Survival


As you approach your destination, start preparing for the descent. Offer a bottle or dummy to babies to help with ear pressure, and remind older kids to swallow or chew gum. Gather your belongings early to avoid a frantic last-minute scramble. And remember, the arrival is just the beginning of the adventure—so buckle up and enjoy the ride!


Surviving a long flight with young kids and babies is like a marathon: it’s exhausting, challenging, and sometimes you wonder why you ever thought it was a good idea. But with the right preparation, you can make it to the finish line. Remember, every parent on that plane has been there, and most are silently cheering you on. Good luck, and may the force (and a steady supply of snacks) be with you!


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